Pillion’s Perspective

It has been over three years since I’ve been a pillion on anyone’s bike.  If I have my way, it will be at least three more before it ever happens again too!  I was pretty sure that I wouldn’t enjoy it and now I can confirm that is, indeed, true.

Last weekend I took my first ever ride on the back of my riding partner’s bike.  Before anyone gets the wrong idea, let me say it had nothing to with a lack of trust in him.   He is a great rider and someone I trust completely.  What was bothering me about it, though, took a while to sort out.

There is something about not being on my own bike, and in charge of my own fate that makes me uncomfortable now.  Or maybe I’m a bit of a control freak.  Ok, there, I said it!  Even though our journey was brief, it took everything in me to sit still and not complain the entire time.  That would have been terribly rude of me as he was doing me a favor in letting me ride on the back.

If I am completely honest, I also found it a bit boring.  I don’t have to worry about traffic and in fact, it could be distracting for someone else to be looking around to see if the way is clear.  Just sit there, don’t any make unexpected moves and behave!  Where is the fun in that?  Other than in hanging out with my friend of course, but I don’t need to ride pillion to accomplish that.

I know of a few folks who only ride pillion and say they really enjoy it.  I’m hoping that the next time I run into one of them, they can explain it to me, because clearly, I have some thing still to learn.

 

2 thoughts on “Pillion’s Perspective

  1. Riders always struggle sitting on the back – yes a control thing.
    Years ago I tried to encourage my wife to get her own bike licence but she’d rather sit on the back and just enjoy the ride and let the scenery wash passed. And I’m fine with that as I enjoy sharing the ride with her.

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    • Thanks for responding, Zed. I’m glad to know it’s not just me with the control thing! 🙂 I used to enjoy letting the scenery wash past but no longer. You shared a great reminder – it is sharing the ride that is most enjoyable, no matter where we’re sitting.

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